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What happens after the night?

Deciding your matches

Who did you click with? Who impressed you? Something they said? The sound of their voice? The way they dressed? Did they make you laugh. You know what you find attractive. You know what does it for you. Make some notes during the evening. Something to jog your memory. Take chances. Take a risk. Be bold with your matches. Go with your instincts.

Making your matches

This stage couldn't be simpler. Log in to the members' section of the website. You'll be straight away offered the option of selecting the matches. You'll get a list of the names of your dates. You'll also be able to read anything they've written about themselves, and maybe see a few photos to jog your memory. Then for each one, simply select Hot, Warm or Cold. Anyone who you select as hot or warm and who selects you as either of these will become a match. You'll immediately find out if you've matched with anyone who has entered their matches before you. If you match with anyone later, you'll instantly find out who they are with a text message and an email.

Contacting your matches

When you have a match, we'll give you their email address, and they'll get yours. No other personal information is swapped. As for what you do next, that's up to you. Do you wait for them to email you? or do you take the initiative and fire off a quick flirty email. Do you take things slowly, get to know them? Or do you go straight for it, and go on a date? That's up to you.

Dating and Drinks

Some people see meeting someone as a big step. Others do it without a second thought. Just make sure you feel comfortable with whatever you're doing. A romantic dinner? A chilled out lunch? Picnic in the countryside on a sunday? We're sure you're bursting with ideas. If you want to do something really original and special and are lost for ideas get in touch, and we'll think of something fantastic.

Have fun. We hope you meet someone utterly amazing and make a stream of fantastic new friends. Tell your friends. Tell your colleagues. Let them know what a fantastic evening you had.